You’ve dated your fair share of women and have always enjoyed keeping
your options open; but lately, there’s this one woman that has you
wondering if she’s “the one.”
In order to help you figure this out, I have compiled the following list of the top 10 ways to know you’re in love.
Number 10: You’ve forgotten your ex
More
often than not, a breakup is followed by a significant amount of time
spent thinking about her and wondering whether or not you guys made the
right decision in going your separate ways. Depending on how long the
two of you were together, these doubts can resurface again and again.
Ever
since you met her , however, the thought of getting back together with
your ex is the furthest thing from your mind. Come to think of it, you
barely recall what you found so great about your ex in the first place.
Number 9: You can’t stop thinking about her
Instead,
you are consumed by thoughts of her . She just pops into your head for
no apparent reason, and you wonder if she thinks of you half as much as
you think of her. You wonder what she’s up to and even consider calling
her (but refrain from doing so for fear of looking overeager).
If
she’s the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first
thing on your mind when you wake up — and you’ve even dreamed of her on a
couple of occasions — then you don’t really even need to read on to
know if you’re in love (but should anyway, just to be sure).
Number 8: You care about her
There
is a reason why you don’t really want to know too much about the chick
you had a one-night stand with: you don’t love her. When you’re in love
with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she is, what she
thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her and her feelings.
If
you truly love a woman, you feel bad if she had a bad day or is upset
about something. You don’t try to cheer her up because you have to , but
because you can’t help it.
Number 7: You find her quirks charming.
She
does and says things that make her different, and you like it. You
can’t quite put your finger on why, but it doesn’t even matter. You like
her just the way she is.
Number 6: You have great chemistry
You
can’t be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If you
and her seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar
ways, that’s a great sign. If you also generate enough heat to set off a
five-alarm fire bell, then she is probably someone that you could fall
in love with, if you aren’t there already.
Number 5: You don’t notice other women as much
Although
you can’t help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by, when
you’re in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar, while others
just pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don’t seem to be
flirting half as much as you used to.
You are slowly realizing
that she’s often the only woman in the room that matters, and, for some
reason, that suits you just fine.
Number 4: You love spending time with her
This
one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless. You look forward to
seeing her, and don’t care much about what the two of you will be doing.
Lately, just going for a walk with her sounds like the best way you
could possibly spend an evening.
Furthermore, when you’re not together, you miss her and wish you were.
Number 3: You don’t mind compromising sometimes
There
was a time when it was your way or the highway, but, with her it’s
different. Not that she asks you to, but you don’t mind missing a night
out with the guys to be with her. And you find yourself trying to
incorporate her into your plans or altering them to accomodate her.
Number 2: Other priorities take a backseat
Your
ever-important “to-do” list seems quite stagnant these days, as being
with her always manages to render your other plans and obligations
obsolete.
Number 1: You start thinking about the future and she’s in it
It
used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on Saturday
night, but, with this woman, the future seems infinite. Not only do you
plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a year from now as
well.
She’s the one…
If you are currently dating a woman
that makes you act in any of the ways mentioned above, then you, my
friend, are seriously falling for her. It’s time to put away the little
black book for a while and enjoy
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