Sunday, September 30, 2012

A MUST READ!!! Does God really exist??

"A man went to a barber shop to have his
hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work, they began to
have a good conversation.
They talked about so many things and
various subjects.
When they eventually touched on the
subject of God, the barber said: “I don’t
believe that God exists.”
“Why do you say that?” asked the
“Well, you just have to go out in the street
to realize that God doesn’t exist. Tell me, if
God exists, would there be so many sick
people? Would there be abandoned
If God existed, there would be neither
suffering nor pain. I can’t imagine a loving a
God who would allow all of these things.”
The customer thought for a moment, but
didn’t respond because he didn’t want to
start an argument.
The barber finished his job and the
customer left the shop.
Just after he left the
barber shop, he saw a man in the street
with long, stringy, dirty hair and an
untrimmed beard.
He looked dirty and unkempt.
The customer turned back and entered the
barber shop again and he said to the barber:
“You know what? Barbers do not exist.”
"How can you say that?" asked the
surprised barber.
“I am here, and I am a barber. And I just
worked on you!”
“No!” the customer exclaimed. “Barbers
don't exist because if they did, there would
be no people with dirty long hair and
untrimmed beards, like that man outside.”
“Ah, but barbers DO exist! What happens is,
people do not come to me.”
“Exactly!”- affirmed the customer. “That’s the
God, too, DOES exist!
What happens, is, people don’t go to Him
and do not look for him.
So, do you believe that God Exist?
If you say YES,
press LIKE
write, AMEN.

[Photo] Live Crocodile Found On Flooded Streets In Benue State

According to source:

    We are treating the issue of flooding, displacements and camps with levity. An outbreak of diseases grave, wish something is done now than later.

    Often tragedies are stories till they hit us, flooding in Nigeria is an issue! Government and private sector criminally silent.

    Took a boat ride in Makurdi to view "homes" submerged, primary schools to view camps, its an emergency.

    The Senate President donated 5m to victims.

    I didn't take the picture but was there and, some meters into the river banks days later, were hippos!

    Not funny Mate*

Cossy with friend's husband..:-)

Let's help the wifey see it. Lol. This Cossy eh, you either love her or hate her. I'm loving her! She no send anybody...:-)

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Hot or not? Kim K's bathing suit

These photos of Kim in a white bathing suit has been trending all day. Many people think it's the worst bathing suit ever! Some said it looked like giant granny panties. Me I kinda like it sha...:-) Hot or hot mess?

Hong Kong businessman offers $65m to any man who can turn his gay daughter straight

Oya, Naija men start dusting your passport...Hong Kong beckons..:-). One of Hong Kong's richest men, 76year old Cecil Chao Sze-tsung, is offering $65 million to any man who can turn his gay daughter straight, and walk her down the aisle. Cecil Chao made the offer after his daughter Gigi, 33, married her girlfriend of seven years, Seab Eav in France. 

The old man has refused to accept that his daughter is married as same-sex marriages are not recognised in Hong Kong...and now he's offering not just money but also to start his potential son-in-law up in his own business  
'I don’t mind whether he is rich or poor – the important thing is that he is generous and kind-hearted,’ he told the South China Morning of the ideal husband for his daughter.

Chao (right) is believed to have married her girlfriend of seven years Sean Eav (left) in France.

Friday, September 28, 2012

LOVE DOCTOR: An Open Letter To Nigerian Men

this is what i got from my inbox, sent to me by a female NTO reader today...

thinking about all my post referring to Nigerian  women made me decide to write a one to men about your responsibilities to us.
Now, there is a common mindset among y’all (men of course). You believe that being male is the only qualification you need, so even if you are; an insensitive bore, less educated, earn less, less experienced, inactive in your religious life, you still believe you are a great catch. I am not shallow enough to think that these are the only things that define a person; they are simply a few common and salient definers. It’s baffling that you think you deserve the great women you’re with. A friend of mine once said “I wish Nigerian boys will take a look at themselves, they will realize that they are just not all that and calm down” (Paraphrased). I laughed so much but there is some truth in it. It’s amazing how lazy many of you men are. You pass on the responsibility of making the relationship work to the woman.

Emotionally: I cannot count how many times I’ve been told by older Nigerian women that men never mature and I should stop waiting for that. Nigerian men are so protected and coddled by their mothers and society. Your emotional needs are always catered to that you completely forget about ours. You quickly point out the ways you are emasculated, do you think of the ways you mock the femininity of the woman you are with. You understand your emotional requirements but are quick to laugh with derision when women express their desires.

Financially: Do you just talk about being the man of the house or do you put your money where your mouth is? Yes, it’s 2012 and most women work, however, if you want to claim boss man then you need to pay the bills. Or better yet, do you have a modern relationship with regards to financial responsibly, yet expect a traditional approach to decision making? Do you consciously or unconsciously expect a woman to share certain responsibilities but you don’t want to change diapers. Don’t shake your head at me, a number of men still feel this way and would act on it if the women in their lives allow it

Protectiveness: It’s so common for women to think they have to protect you from encroaching women. I won’t even attempt to address that mindset, anyone who has been cheated on knows it’s not you or what you do or don’t do. A real man will walk away from a relationship that can’t be fixed; not cheat. As a man are you protecting your wife (or girlfriend) from her in-laws, your mother, other women, people, positions and emotions that might hurt her? Do you think she must deal with everything you and your family dish out? Or do you realize that she is worthy of your support in life.

Are you protecting her from yourself? As women we are raised to know men don’t like nagging, don’t hit your man, don’t swear at him and so on. Women break these rules, but most people are aware of. Do men realize that women have a right to be protected from your churlish moods, anger and cutting words?

Sexually: Many of you are so sexually selfish. It’s all about you, you, and you. You never take the time to learn what pleases the woman you are with. Unfortunately, too many women let you get away with it. You move from woman to woman using the same tired moves that made the last woman fake orgasms. Or better still you come up with a list of one sided rules, like, no oral sex from you, but you want it from her. Seriously, wake up and smell the coffee.

Spiritually: You quote the Bible, Koran or any other religious book when it suits you. Are you living by the principles, are you ensuring that you fulfill your God given role in her life before demanding for hers? Are you fulfilling your part of the charge you were given by those books? Are you cherishing, honoring her with your body, sharing your worldly goods or just expecting her to be an obedient wife. And even if you haven’t taken the vows of marriage, these vows are still a clear example of how we should conduct relationships.

Final note to you men: I know many of you suffer from a false sense of entitlement and discontentment. And yes you are right; they will always be someone prettier, sexier, smarter, sweeter, funnier, more adventurous and more religious, than your current girlfriend or maybe even wife. There is always the chance that there is someone out there who you’ll connect better with. True, your mother is a paragon of everything a Psalm 31 woman should be, yet I can assure you she wasn’t that when your father married her. Newsflash: You are not who we envision when we dream about our ideal man, but, we are willing and happy to work with you but you’ve got to give us something.

To the women: These are just a few examples, this is certainly not an exhaustive list. Ultimately, a man who has a good woman AND recognizes her worth will do these things and more. But ladies, desperation is never cute. If you have a man who doesn’t call or text, make time for you and ultimately make you a priority …he isn’t worth fighting for.

In summation, men, get off your high horse and do some work to get and keep a woman.

Adios !!!